Tricks to provoke Positive Emotions

10 Clever Tricks to Trigger Positive Emotions

Here are 10 positive-action exercises to try:

1. Feeling Happy

There is more to lifting your mood than forcing your face into a brief, unfeeling smile that finishes in the blink of an eye. Instead:

• Relax the muscles in your forehead and cheeks, and let your mouth drop slightly open.

• Contract the muscles near the corners of your mouth, drawing them back toward your ears. Make the smile as wide as possible and extend your eyebrow muscles slightly upward. Hold the resulting expression for about 20 seconds.

Try to incorporate this mood-brightening exercise into your daily routine by, for example, smiling just before you answer the telephone or setting a reminder on your computer.

2. Moving On

Struggling to get over an upsetting choice you had to make? 
Researcher Xiuping Li from the National University of Singapore Business School asked every participant in a learn about to write down a recent decision he or she regretted. Li then asked some of the members to seal their regrets in an envelope. Those who did so then said feeling extensively better about their previous decisions. Although they were simply performing on a physically symbolic closure, their actions helped them attain psychological closure.
Next time you want some help getting over the loss of a client or a bad business decision, write a brief description of what happened on a piece of paper, put the paper in an envelope, and kiss the past goodbye. And if you really want to have fun, reach for the matches and convert your envelope into a pile of ashes.

3. The Power of Secrets

The more couples get to know one another, the more they disclose personal information. Psychologist Arthur Aron with the State University of New York at Stony Brook paired strangers, gave them a set of 36 questions that allowed them to open up about increasingly private aspects of their lives and then had them rate how they felt about each other. As predicted, the questions promoted a sense of intimacy and attraction. 
When using this technique to deepen your relationship with a colleague, family member or friend, take things one step at a time and make sure you’re both comfortable with the conversation.

Here are 10 sample questions from Aron’s experiment:

• Whom would you want as a dinner guest? Given the choice of anyone in the world.

• Would you like to be famous? In what way?

• Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why? (it's for me!!)

• What would constitute a perfect day for you?

• When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

• If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

• What is your most treasured/pleasant memory?

• What is your most awful memory?

• For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

• If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

4. Pull Me–Push You

Let's explain with below examples:

If you are dieting, try behaving as if you don’t like unhealthy food. Research suggests that pushing an object away from you (and so behaving as if you didn’t like it) makes you dislike the object. Whereas, pulling it toward you (behaving as if you liked it) makes you experience far more positively about it. Next time you are confronted with a plate of sugary or fried snacks, genuinely push the plate away from you and experience the temptation fade.

Conversely, if you are in sales and want to make prospective clients feel more positive about a product, try placing it on a table in front of them and encouraging them to slide it closer.

5. Muscle Magic

People who are highly motivated frequently tense their muscles as they prepare to spring into action. 
Iris Hung, an associate professor of marketing at the National University of Singapore, has shown that the opposite is also true - you can boost your willpower simply by tensing your muscles. Next time you feel your willpower draining away, try.
Example : making a fist, contracting your biceps, pressing your thumb and first finger together, or gripping a pen in your hand.

Similarly, if you want to persevere with something, try crossing your arms. 
Ron Friedman, social psychologist asked people to tackle difficult anagrams with their arms either crossed or resting on their thighs. By folding their arms, people were acting as if they were persistent, and they continued trying to solve the puzzle for nearly twice as long as those with their hands on their thighs.

6. Breaking Habits

You can help crack unwanted habits by behaving as if you are someone who never gets stuck in a routine.
Psychologists Ben Fletcher and Karen Pine from the University of Hertfordshire in the U.K. carried out research in which people trying to lose weight were asked to adopt a more flexible approach to life (for example, being asked to stop watching television for a day or travelling to work using different routes and transportation). These small changes helped people break their bad patterns. 

Try to undo unwanted habits by behaving as if you are a flexible person and carrying out one of the following every few days:

• Try an unusual form of food.
• Visit a new art gallery or museum.
• Go to a shop that you have never visited before.
• Make time to see a film that you don’t think you will enjoy.

7. How to Negotiate

The chairs that you sit in affect your behavior, which in turn affects how you think.
Joshua Ackerman, an assistant professor of marketing at the MIT Sloan School of Management, volunteers sat on either hard chairs or soft-cushioned chairs while paired with strangers to role-play the negotiation of selling a new car. Those in the hard chairs sat rigidly, while those sitting in the soft chairs felt comfortable—and sure enough, their behavior was significantly different. Those in the hard chairs were more inflexible in their negotiations and demanded a higher price for the car.

Hard furniture creates hard behavior, which underlines the importance of having soft furnishings in your home and office (except for when you need to be the bad cop!!).

8. The Power of Warm

From an early age, we associate the feeling of warmth with safety and security (think hugs and open fires), and coldness with unfriendliness. 

University of Colorado psychologist Lawrence Williams suggests that indeed the case. Williams handed volunteers either a hot cup of coffee or drink, asked them to read description of a stranger, asked them to rate the stranger’s personality. The volunteers who had been warmed up by the coffee thought that the stranger seemed much friendlier than had been clutching iced drinks.The “as if” principle predicts that warming people up should make them feel friendly.

So, If you are trying to be friend someone, skip the frozen cocktails in an air-conditioned bar and instead opt for a steaming mug of tea in front of a roaring fire.

9. All Together Now

Want to get a group to bond together quickly and believe in a single cause? 
Assistant professor Scott Wiltermuth from the University of Southern California gathered groups of three volunteers. Some of the groups were asked to walk around the university campus normally, while others were formed into a small army and asked to march around the same route in step. In another part of the study, groups were asked to listen to a national anthem, and others were asked to sing along and move in time to the music. 
The people in each of the groups were then asked to play a board game in which they could choose to help or hinder one another. Those who had been walking in sync and singing in unison quickly bonded, and they were significantly more likely to help one another during the game.

People who have bonded together often act in unison. Similarly, acting in unison helps people bond together.

10. Power Posing

when people are put into “power poses,” they feel more confident, have higher levels of testosterone (a chemical associated with dominance) and lower levels of cortisol (a chemical associated with stress).

So if you are sitting down, lean back, look up and interlock your fingers behind your head. If you are standing up, then place your feet flat on the floor and push your shoulders back and your chest forward.

If you haven’t got time to strike a powerful pose, just make a fist. Thomas Schubert from the University of Oslo asked a group of men to rate how confident they felt, then to form their hand into a fist for a few seconds, and then to re-rate their confidence. The volunteers’ bodies influenced their brains, with the men enjoying a significant boost in confidence because they had spent a few moments forming a fist.